@patricia I have seen others comment on usage of CW's int the following manner:

"You don't need to put a CW on a message, but without it I will likely not boost it" - which in my head translates to "you do you, and I'll do me" - this makes sense to me.

I have qualms with people taking it a step further saying "you should not have sent that message without a CW" - unless it's clearly in the server rules this response is not called for. And you are on your own server.