曳尾于涂I grew, day by day, more moody, more irritable, more regardless of the feelings of others. I suffered myself to use intemperate language to my wife. At length, I even offered her personal violence.
这个 grew suffered 和 offered 用得厉害啊 一下就确立了自己的主人公地位并把被家暴对象客体化了
这个 suffered 甚至把自己变成了受害者地位
personal 更是绝 把普遍性的错误行为变成了别人管不着的个人体验