So a kaiju (怪獣) is any kind of big, terrifying, and seemingly undefeatable monster in fiction. The kind we're most familiar with, like Godzilla, are daikaiju (大怪獣) which specifically refers to the giant kind. They vary from being fairly intelligent to being animals, and tend to attack cities and things, leaving devastation behind.

This is a pretty loose definition, though. So...

King Kong. Huge gorilla and protector of Skull Island. Otherwise, not particularly fantastical.
Is King Kong a kaiju?
Yes
67.2%
No
6.3%
Maybe?
14.1%
No but those big monster things he fights are
12.5%
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In the Jurassic Park movies, the T Rex is pretty much undefeatable, apparently fairly intelligent, and good at destroying things.
Is a Tyrannosaurus Rex a kaiju?
Yes
26.3%
No
28.1%
Maybe when it was wrecking San Diego?
45.6%
Poll ended at .
The Ghostbusters did actually defeat the Stay Puft Marshmallow Man, but it was still a ridiculously big monster which wrecked New York.
Is the Stay Puft Marshmallow Man a kaiju?
Yes
87.9%
No
4.5%
No, too cute
3%
No, too puffy
4.5%
Poll ended at .

In pretty much any version of the story, the Tripods from War of the Worlds are basically unstoppable eldrich horrors which wreck everything in their path until they all get sick and die.

They're mechanical, but so is Mechagodzilla. They're from space, but so is King Ghidora.

Is a War of the Worlds Tripod a kaiju?
Yes
47.1%
No
9.8%
They don't count because they're vehicles
43.1%
Poll ended at .
@InvaderXan i would say those are mechas
@meena Which, of course, begs the question – is a mecha a kaiju?

@InvaderXan hrm… the ones from Neon Genesis Evangelion skirt the line, because of how much of their own willpower they have

but from what i gather, most mechas affect the pilot in a way, the longer they pilot it

it seems to be a core element of what defines the genre, or at least what makes a truly powerful mecha

@meena Hmmm, so it's kind of a case-by-case maybe

@InvaderXan so i know nothing of the Golem myth
but it keeps popping into my mind, so here goes nothing

the Golem is made from clay
but once you breathe life into it, it, well acquires life, but it can also acquire a will separate from the one who awoke it

similarly, the life you insert into a mecha is the pilot, then it comes to life
but often the will of the mecha is not entirely the will of the pilot

@meena Oh, that's an interesting comparison. I hadn't considered that parallel before
@InvaderXan i only did thanks to your questionnaire!