this one guy that i was friends with got onto me about vaguing about him blacklisting the word queer despite it being my identity. this was because i was reblogging queer-supportive posts.
absolutely nowhere other than the private chat we had (involving both his friend and a mediator) did he even fucking mention it was a trigger in the first place.
and now he's making a public post on tumblr, mentioning how crap i've been to him and demanding an apology.
he also said that him bitching at me over shit in private, after i've done said shit and not like- immediately after, just letting it build up. he said that it was for my own good.
what the fuck?
i'm honestly completely fucking pissed at him because he says that it's not intended for people to be dogpiling on me or to humiliate me, but why else would he make a public fucking post about shit. i don't trust his intentions.
i also got kicked out of a friend group over this, because he gave me an ultimatum and i can't do ultimatums.
what part of making a fucking public post, demanding an apology for stuff that i'm pretty sure i've already apologized for, claiming it's for my own good and claiming that it's not intended to humiliate me is for my own fucking good?
what would have been for my own fucking good was not having my identity blacklisted or at least a proper explanation.
instead of just 'it makes me uncomfortable!'
not to mention how hostile he's been to me regarding this.
anyways, might as well get the fucking liquor out.
he's also claimed that the word 'queer' is ableist and considered a slur towards physically disabled people.
i've looked at twitter, i've looked on DDG for articles. i can't find shit about this.
stabbsworth