I have recently decided to absolve myself the guilt of not responding to any messages or texts from anyone I don’t have the bandwidth to make chit chat- no matter how “close” we are, or how much they feel deserving of my time/energy. We are not meant to be constantly in contact with a hundred-some people at any given time & I’m not sorry 🦋
@goaskforde keep your circle tight. i have maybe 5 really close friends and that's right for me. it's easy to get caught up in a popularity contest, but that shit will wear you out and cause so many problems.