tbh i think part of making a queer-friendly game world is just really tiny side bits like this

like obviously you need actual queer characters, but also the occasional NPC just offhand assuming like "yeah girls show up to pay for girl dancers" or whatever is a neat way to show that gay people are normal and not like "everyone is hetero, except for you"

like it's the tiny stuff that makes being gay feel normal BECAUSE it's bland minutiae too instead of just major characters/events i feel??? idk

like having gay main characters and dramatic story scenes or whatever is really good at showing the game/devs are fine with gay/trans people when they happen to show up

but the little touches like an NPC just blurting this first line offhand somehow goes way further toward making it feel like the world and people are accepting too, and that it's a common normal thing that isn't seen as strange or up for debate

it's just a neat writing thing i want to see more of

like idk one character being very loudly positive makes it feel like the rest of the game world may not be accepting, but that character is

the occasional character being totally bored about it in casual conversation like you just commented on the weather or something makes it feel like the whole world is used to it and cool with it

it feels warmer to have both instead of just one, somehow

i've been trying to figure out for years what ff14 does different from other games representation-wise that makes me weirdly overattached to it and i think it's this, really

little stuff like this makes the world feel like home, i think

i just want every character in everything to react to being told "i'm trans" with that same aura of "that's boring to me but i'm happy you're happy" as when you tell someone about your new weird hobby
@Kat one of the things I did with 1879 was to normalize a lot of queer content, using the context that magic had returned to the world and people were turning into elves and trolls. There's so much going on that most people just don't care about someone transitioning or moving in with three other people of the same gender or whatever. The person we knew as Bob is now a female dwarf and calling herself Betty? Is she showing up to work on time? If so, what's the problem?

@Kat also it's actually less work.

Because you don't have to have some weird gender marker and two different dialogues.

Just one dialog for everyone + gay girls wanting to see girl dancers is wholesome

@maxine yeah!! you have to like actively go to the effort to avoid this in games where you can choose your character's gender, but somehow it's not as common as it feels like it should be, haha

@Kat it just reminds me of this

Gamers: "Adding pronouns choosing to games is too much work. Devs should only concentrate on important stuff."

Also gamers: "Doing two separate dialogues, based on some obscure gender marker is necessary."

I do really love when devs just say screw it and don't put the effort in to make things different.

Just like me like girls, while I'm also a girl and it be totally normal.

@Kat Also sorry for hyper focusing on stuff
@Kat the main story in an MMO is important but it's all the little mundane environmental details that flesh out the world and make you feel what kind of a place it is
@InspectorCaracal half my posts on here are just nerding out about ff14 but like... it really is a pretty good game
@Kat it totally deserve to be nerded out about honestly lmao