I had sex for 20 years, with many people, without ever getting pregnant.

But in the years since I became a widow, despite the sex I've had nearly falling to zero, I've been pregnant (and aborted) twice. After the first time I was so traumatized by how physically awful the abortion recovery was that I became very sex averse-- and the very next time, when I had sex a year later, I got pregnant again. Just had sex for the first time in forever a week ago, and my period is late. I'm gonna cry.