I struggle to get my head even round the beginning parts of category theory. My fundamental problem is that I don't understand why it exists.
Eg, I stumble at this introductory sentence:
https://bartoszmilewski.com/2014/11/04/category-the-essence-of-composition/
<< A category is an embarrassingly simple concept. A category consists of objects and arrows that go between them.>>
And right there I'm screaming: That's a graph. You're literally describing a graph. Why did you invent a whole bunch of new terms to describe what already exists?