Still pretty fucking wild that I had to figure out a modding thing like, way back in October and I still have to think about some weirdo creep just making shit up about me. 👌

Hell, might have even been August.

Anyway, I’m not gonna lie: the fact a rapist is stalking my profile months later for dirt? It’s triggering. Absolutely is. LB is a disturbed individual. At this point, I think there is little doubt of that. I’m not gonna devote my life to it. But I urge admins of other instances to take a strong stance to protect your members, quietly. She is, emphatically, a danger to others.

I know I am not everybody’s fave. But I took a pretty moderate stance when I blocked her, and honestly, her willingness to go around blocks, to lie without compunction or shame, to cheer for the dissolution of left communities, to use violence and paranoia to create hierarchy? Not an anarchist. An abuser to the core.
Anyway, gonna try to let this go and get some sleep. But again: I took a moderate but defensive stance when suspending her instance, and for that I have been stalked and smeared. An accused rapist has been harassing a rape victim who blocked her because accused rapists trigger her. And for that, she has gone after me. Because this is a person without a fucking soul. Just a monster. 🤷‍♀️

@some_qualia Jesus, yeah, I've been dealing with something like this at a site I used to write for. I got banned b/c I called them out for pretending to be woke and tolerant but also fostering a culture where people felt free to sexualize children-- as long as they kissed up to the mods.

Anyway, a friend of mine showed me some screenshots where they were recently openly stalking my social media presence and denigrating my mental health. I was banned in August. Like, fuck off already.

@RuckCohlchez And I’m sure they’re gonna be like “see he’s talking about us!!!”

Yeah. Because that is fucking creepy.

Why are predators like that??? Like, fuck.

@some_qualia Oh, it's exactly like you describe here, too. The biggest predator is a guy who always talks about how everyone should be tolerant, give other people the benefit of the doubt, etc.

Then he openly posts about how hot he finds fourteen-year-olds, and that saying "good riddance" to lolicon is "kink shaming." Gee, wonder why he wants people to be tolerant?

And, surprise!, confronting him about this or sharing the evidence causes him to rage out and DEMAND AN APOLOGY.

@some_qualia First thought is: Predators are like that because they desperately need to control the narrative about themselves. So they can continue to get away with it.
@RuckCohlchez What bakes my noodle is why it is people SO reliably fall for it. Like, I could say something really dark about the most reliable way to make friends is a human sacrifice. But that seems actually pretty true.
@some_qualia @RuckCohlchez Just wanna stop by and say that (ignoring the context) "What bakes my noodle" is adorable. :)
@isavegas @some_qualia It makes me think of the Oracle from The Matrix.
@RuckCohlchez @some_qualia Holy crap, I haven't watched the Matrix trilogy in nearly 10 years. :O