@ahuster I never figured it out. I met Tandye on the Internet as a friend and two years later I happened to be visiting the city she lived in and she met me at the airport and like 30 seconds after seeing each other in person we knew we were gonna get married, which we did 10 months later. It was insanely reckless and worked out great but I do not recommend the approach and I'm still mystified as to Exactly What Happened

@ahuster apparently meet someone on discord and convince them you’re cool. I think it worked for me.

@ahuster https://youtu.be/iAITrpZmWtc