So, when I found that my oldest son had been listening to some really raunchy music in HS, I made him sit down and listen to it with me. I would pause it and say "This part here, is this how you feel about women?" And then proceed again. The lyrics were misogynist and horrible. I paused it at every horrible line, and discussed it with him. He was horrified of course. Then I gave him back his tape, told him it was his, and that I wanted an essay on how he felt women should be treated.