surely there are better ways to advocate for queer liberation than peddling biological essentialism (e.g. "we were born this way!"). this type of argument seems to imply "we can't help that we're like this, so leave us alone" as if it would be acceptable to deny us our humanity if it WAS a choice
@ughsadkid tbh it doesnt matter if we were or werent born this way, society reacts the same regardless of whether or not this was a choice so thats enough of an argument to start looking for different ways to approach queer liberation