I came back home from my kid's playdate, cooking wife's favorite cabbage for family dinner while sawing a broken seam on my house pants. Thinking of how awesome was the morning yoga today.
Meanwhile wife done with her math on the computer for today and is blowing off some steam doing some wood working in her shop. She is working on some new furniture. She just told me she'd wanted to watch some sports tonight, while I'd much rather read the book and chat.
So... wanna talk gender roles? :)
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Time to talk about gym. First, there are no all-gender change rooms. Second, the body-police pressure is on all the time. It is hostile even to cis who happen to have a regular body to the point that now there are "female only" gyms in existence. Which leaves me with other kinds of gyms...

I alternate between wearing what I like - small shorts, awesome bright a-bit-lewd t-shirt, not caring how many stares my chest area attracts; and suddenly taken back to long gray pants, baggy plain t-shirt, hating myself for not standing for my body.

There was only one time in my life when I was going to gym regularly. That was when my company moved to a new building with a gym and other floors were empty. There was nobody in the gym most of the time. I went there every day, I loved it and I wanted to do it more. But it changed when the other floors became occupied. And I stopped.

This made me realize it is the people that make me hate exercising.

I do not have a solution to this, just sharing my experience.

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I love our shared wardrobe. And not that we just keep our clothes together, we actually share our clothes between me my wife.

A dress just arrived yesterday - I thought it would be perfect for me. It is styled as a business (male) shirt at the top and is knee-long and free-flowing at the bottom. A perfect blend! But it did not work. Was not a problem, my wife likes it and we can keep it. While I shop for one with some slightly wider shoulders...

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And of course I screwed it up being new here :)

Will be using #beeingenby instead of #beeing-enby going forward.