#MyBateToday was a sprint rather than a marathon, and really enjoyed it a lot. Honestly, I never regret masturbating and I don’t judge any session for missing the mark on duration or intensity or anything other than it felt great.
I had a lot to squeeze into the morning: a push session at the gym, a doctor’s appointment, a company meeting, a shower and shave… When my nuts started tingling as I put on my jock, I did a quick time calculation (would I miss any of my goals?) and libido check (was I horny enough to enjoy it or would postponing work better?) and decided to bate a bit. Cumming was optional but bating was 100% OK with me. I took off the jock, got out some lube, and sat in my office chair, pulling up some of my favorite glory hole porn.
When I watch this stuff, I’m aware that the prospect of sucking a dick to orgasm and imagining the taste of semen erupting onto my tongue gets me off more than imagining my own cock ejaculating into the skilled and hungry mouth on the screen, but the porn I watch allows my imagination to switch as the moment strikes me.
I came in about two minutes, right as the muffled voice on the other side of the hole moaned and the scrotum on the monitor began pulsing at the base. Very inspiring. Very satisfying.
I’m no less satisfied by a quick wank than a long edge. In both cases, I shoot an intense load, feel profound pleasure and connection with my body and my life. Regardless of duration, I enjoy the journey as much as the destination and I am old enough to know that all of it is impermanent. I’m never sad it’s over. I just move on to the next impermanent thing, just happy to have this ready capacity for pleasure anytime I choose.
That’s #MyBateToday - Share your own experience with the hashtag and let’s be a little more real together. 💙