Quick Q and A!

What’s a mystery from your own life that you’ve never solved? The mystery from my own life I’ve never solved is how some decisions seem to arrive long before you understand them.For years, I had little thoughts that didn’t make much sense at the time. I wanted old places. I wanted travel. I wanted history, stories, graveyards, stone houses, strange corners of the world, and a life that felt more like mine.At the time, they were just thoughts.Then one by one, they started joining […]

https://roamingtowardsmyself.blog/2026/05/05/quick-q-and-a-63/

Seven Sisters Chalk Cliffs

The Seven Sisters are the kind of place that make you feel very small in the best possible way. They sit on the East Sussex coast, between Seaford and Eastbourne, where the South Downs meet the English Channel in a long sweep of white chalk cliffs, shingle beach, rock pools and open sky. The section I visited was around Birling Gap, which is managed by the National Trust and is one of the best-known access points for seeing the cliffs up close. The National Trust describes Birling Gap and […]

https://roamingtowardsmyself.blog/2026/05/04/seven-sisters-chalk-cliffs/

Fabulous FREE day out in Reigate!

So much to do. Some places surprise you in the best way. Reigate was one of those places for me.I knew there were a few free places to explore, but I did not expect the day to feel quite so full. Priory Park, Reigate Castle Grounds, Reigate Fort, Reigate Tunnel, and the town centre all gave me something different: lake walks, nesting swans, old stone, military history, views, caves, pretty streets and gorgeous old buildings.And the best part? Apart from coffee, food or whatever else you […]

https://roamingtowardsmyself.blog/2026/04/26/fabulous-free-day-out-in-reigate/

Doors I Wanted to Open But Probably Shouldn’t.

Apparently, I have developed a thing for doors.Not normal doors. I’m not wandering around taking photos of freshly painted suburban front doors with shiny new handles and sensible security screens. No offence to practical doors, but they are not really my thing.I mean old doors.The strange ones.The heavy ones.The crooked ones.The ones tucked into stone walls or half-hidden in corners.The ones with iron hinges, peeling paint, arched tops, tiny windows, thick timber, bolts, latches and enough […]

https://roamingtowardsmyself.blog/2026/04/25/doors-i-wanted-to-open-but-probably-shouldnt/

Is Your Relationship Over?

You can read about Red Flags in dating here. If this post resonated: I wrote an ebook called Just Friends: When Boundaries Blur and Respect Disappears. It’s an honest, personal look at blurred boundaries, disrespect, and learning to trust yourself sooner. It’s available on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B0GX3B5SSX⁠

https://roamingtowardsmyself.blog/2026/04/02/is-your-relationship-over/

The Beginning…..

https://youtube.com/shorts/lPesZmuGZzs?si=C8-rywHAPyRlVgk4 New Beginnings!!! If this post resonated: I wrote an ebook called Just Friends: When Boundaries Blur and Respect Disappears. It’s an honest, personal look at blurred boundaries, disrespect, and learning to trust yourself sooner. It’s available on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B0GX3B5SSX⁠

https://roamingtowardsmyself.blog/2026/03/24/the-beginning/

Using AI as a Tool to Distract From Rumination

How I used AI as a supplementary distraction tool during rumination, including rapid-fire questions, self-reflection and mental-health boundaries.

https://roamingtowardsmyself.blog/2026/03/13/ai-tool-distract-from-rumination/

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Farewell to the Old Me