• programming student
• android with hot-swappable parts
• hobbyist hobby-haver
• gentle butch bitch
• 18+ only please
• friend of eggbug
frequently used tags:
#programming #touchingGrass #joyAndWhimsy #hobbies #MentalHealth
| Pronouns | they/them |
| Age | 20's |
| Interests | games, code, roller skating, movies, art, jokes, ranting, roller skating |
happy valentine's day, everyone!
don't forget to love on yourself today too 💛
surrounding myself with folks who ALSO love speculating and mentally rotating ideas around is such fun!
no more "it's not that deep".
what if it IS? what if it COULD BE?
i love having friends who intellectually stimulate me
tags: #thinkyThoughts #joyAndWhimsy
when a friend says stuff that hits several of your tender identity spots in the sweetest, most reassuring ways 
tags: #dyssynthia
trying to find hookups as a rural butch lesbian bottom is a trick and a half
"rural" means options are limited to begin with
the specific combo of "butch" + "bottom" is killer though; social norms dictate that the masculine partner is the penetrating party
i do not want to do that; i would like that done to me, haha. in fact, if it were up to me, i'd be absolutely railed at LEAST twice a month
might have to wait until i move for that tho
embroidering stars onto my battle vest! really wanted some lesbian colors on here, so i'm very happy with how the second star turned out
can't wait to wear this to queer functions 
post-secondary education tip: check if your college or university offers free counseling to its students
mine does; i actually tried it for the first time and met a counselor i enjoy seeing!
if it doesn't work out, you're no worse off than where you started
tags: #MentalHealth
it's been such a paradigm shift to go from "i try new things to get good" to "i try new things because those are experiences i want to have"
it changed my mentality from "having lots of skills makes up for my existence" to "i am worthy of a rich and fulfilling life, and capable of tolerating discomfort"
skill acquisition went from something i did to make up for my existence (aka please others) to something i do for myself bc i enjoy it
tags: #thoughts #MentalHealth
some more birds
songbird reference came from Wikipedia
Baltimore Oriole reference was a photo comes from Matthew Plante/Macaulay Library
cardinal's reference came from a website called "All About Birds"
tags: #art #joyAndWhimsy #hobbies #birds
i had such a sad and painful christmas week
i'm grateful i had space and time to process that
i am doubly grateful for my friends and family, who tried their best to make things better for me. they all knew they couldn't fix it, but they tried to help me through it anyway and i'm very touched by that
to all the supportive friends out there: your effort makes a difference. my week was made better by small gestures from people who care, and it's meant the world 💛
tags: #holidays #MentalHealth
