Also, where do you find good written queer erotica? Queer erotic comics/webcomics/prose that are sexy and erotic and explicit without feeling gratuitous or porny/have stories that are about more than just, "When we gon' fuck next?" Are there actually good written queer erotic bundles a la humble bundle or something? I'd even take movie recommendations too.

Like, I want erotic, not porny. If that makes sense. And Otome. But not just visual novels, but don't exclude VN'd from recommendations. Honestly, any kind of media would be appreciated. Sorry for the ramble.