The Cosmic Self

@the_cosmic_self
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I'm the velvet voice behind this blog—a curious creature with lipstick in one hand and a birth chart in the other. I study human behavior like a seductress studies her next move: slowly, thoroughly, and with just enough empathy to make it dangerous.

Ever been left hanging on tiny crumbs of attention?
That’s breadcrumbing — the art of giving just enough contact to keep you hooked... but never enough to satisfy.
https://youtube.com/shorts/w0AqR5YaygM?feature=shared

Remember, darling — you deserve the whole meal, not just crumbs.

#Breadcrumbing
#MixedSignals
#MindGamesExplained
#FemmeFataleEnergy
#EmotionalManipulation
#PsychologyOfAttraction
#DatingRedFlags
#KnowYourWorth
#ConfidenceIsPower
#StopBreadcrumbing
#ToxicFlirting

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🎯 Intermittent Reinforcement:
The Most Addictive Game You Didn’t Know You Were Playing
They’re hot, then cold. Sweet, then distant.
And your brain? Hooked like a lab rat on a slot machine.
Welcome to the psychology of mixed signals—where inconsistency feels like chemistry.
Let’s break it down, beautifully.
https://youtube.com/shorts/JXkjhhKe1oI?feature=shared

#IntermittentReinforcement
#PsychologyOfLove
#FemmeFatalePsychology
#ToxicAttraction
#EmotionalAddiction
#DarkFeminineEnergy
#HotAndCold
#AttachmentTheory

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He doesn’t love you.
He loves the version of himself he’s selling through you.
That’s future faking—a manipulation tactic dressed in rose petals and promises.
He paints the dream so you ignore the reality.

Watch what they DO, not what they promise.
https://youtube.com/shorts/6-qgRcwpiys?feature=shared

#FutureFaking #DarkPsychology #FemmeFataleEnergy #ToxicLove #PsychologicalManipulation #RedFlags #LoveBombing #DatingAdvice #ShadowWork #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfWorth #Gaslighting

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Hera: goddess of marriage, queen of Olympus… and the original expert in emotional power plays. From divine puppet strings to cosmic side-eyes, we unravel the psychology of Olympus’s most strategic woman. It’s not manipulation — it’s monarchy.
https://youtube.com/shorts/6Xgkk2l2hWk

#Hera #GreekMythology #DivineFeminine #OlympusQueen #MythologyWithAttitude #GoddessEnergy #PsychologyOfGods #DarkMythHumor #GodComplex #FemmeFataleNarrator

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Zeus: god of the sky, king of Olympus… and walking red flag. From swan seductions to thunderbolt tantrums, we unpack the psychology of a god with no impulse control and way too many kids. Myth? Sure. But the behavior? Timeless.
https://youtube.com/shorts/11T-yz0Kz4c

#Zeus #GreekMythology #RedFlags #PsychologyOfGods #DivineDrama #MythologyWithAttitude #OlympusUnfiltered #DarkMythHumor #GodComplex #FemmeFataleVoiceOver

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They came. They stood near the snack table.
They planned 10 exits in their head.

Do you relate to:
✔️ The “bathroom break that lasts 20 minutes”?
✔️ Mentally rehearsing how to say “hi”?
✔️ Suddenly remembering your plants need watering… at 9 p.m.?

Then this one’s for you.
Introverts, unite — quietly, in separate corners of the room.
https://youtube.com/shorts/FkMpTQeIyfA

#IntrovertLife #RelatableAF #PartyAnxiety #SocialBattery #PsychologyHumor #MBTI #INFJ #INTP #QuietButFunny #SketchComedy #IntrovertMood

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Take one step back… and watch them chase.

In this video, we break down the psychology behind “The Scarcity Drop”—a subtle, powerful move that makes your presence feel like a privilege.

Learn how to use psychological scarcity to shift power, deepen desire, and walk away like you planned it.

💋 Smart is seductive. Scarcity is strategy.

https://youtube.com/shorts/9pSsuusv5fs

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more:

#ScarcityDrop #FemmeFataleEnergy #PsychologyTricks #PowerMoves #DarkFeminine #MindGames

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Narcissists don’t break up — they launch counterattacks.
Love bombs, guilt trips, gaslight-and-go routines…
But don’t worry, darling.
We don’t fight back — we float above.
This is your survival guide to dodging their drama with style, silence, and a side-eye.
https://youtube.com/shorts/NbOs93HDB0Q
Protect your peace. Block with elegance.

#NarcissistSurvival #DramaDodger #CalmGirlEra #FemmeFataleWisdom #EmotionalArmor #ToxicTactics #GaslightFreeZone #HealingWithHumor #SelfPreservationSociety #DetachWithGrace

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The Trojan Compliment - Mind Trick
🖤 It’s not just flattery. It’s a velvet-wrapped strategy.
Compliment their ego's weak spot 🎯—and watch them open every door.
Watch it here:
https://youtu.be/W3NrQmVnoJY

#TrojanCompliment #DarkPsychology #FemmeFataleEnergy #ManipulationTactics #PsychologicalTricks #PowerPlays #FlatteryGame #SocialStrategy #MindGames #ModernSeduction #EmotionalIntelligence #SoftPower #RedLipstickLogic #PsychTips

🐎 The Trojan Compliment - Mind Trick #psychology #mindgames #mindtricks

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How to Bore a Narcissist Into Silence
Narcissists feed on drama and attention. But what happens when you give them nothing? Discover the Gray Rock Method—a powerful psychological trick to protect your peace and drive narcissists quietly wild.

🧠 Learn how to be intentionally boring, emotionally neutral, and untouchable.
https://youtube.com/shorts/ekDqW0_3Td4

#GrayRock #NarcissistSurvival #ToxicPeople #EmotionalIntelligence #PsychologyTips #Boundaries #MentalHealthTools

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