Seventeen years ago, I thought I was in a cis-hetero relationship, trying to fit into the norms everyone around me expected. I wore the gender roles others gave me and performed a script that never felt like mine.
Today, Iām a trans girl in a loving, joyful lesbian relationship. My little one is queer, and during this Pride Month, all their closest friends have come out too.
This weekend, we celebrated my little oneās birthday in Capitol HillāSeattleās gayest neighborhood. Pride flags were everywhere, queer people surrounded us, and I felt such a sense of safety, belonging, and celebration. In our group of eight, only two were not queerāand for that moment, I wasnāt the odd one out. I felt the joy of being part of a majorityāa community that embraced me just as I am.
I am so grateful to see my little one with like-minded friends, living free of the judgment and rejection I faced when I was young.
Happy Pride, fam! Letās celebrate who we are, together. šāØ