@TodePond @spoltier yeah i guess i'm focusing more on expression and how one feels about themself, which is how i form my identity

what would you do differently? — for yourself, at least, not for some fucking web form.

@spoltier @TodePond something like this

there's a "how far" vs "how fast" thing that's not captured here that I think is crucial

but i'm just posting, not actually designing, so idfk

(also, the fact that they're asking at all strikes me as idiotic, but i'm ignoring that entirely because it's more fun to play that way)

(also, i bet for many people the cultural references to "masc" and "fem" wouldn't convey the right meaning — again, just posting, not actually designing)