Having a parasocial relationship with Taylor Swift means you can stream her songs on Spotify if you don’t want to buy the album, but you don’t get to demand that she put time into making more music. People who like her music seem to understand this, and are more than happy to buy merch or vinyl or concert tickets and make her a billionaire.
How does this apply to FOSS? Go read this by @daedalus
https://pivotnine.com/blog/open-source-has-too-many-parasocial-relationships/