Freelance journalist and sex nerd. Bi #trans guy writing about shame, queer culture, and how capitalism is incompatible with sexual liberation.
You can subscribe to Genderbent, my newsletter exploring gender and transmasculity, at https://www.genderbent.co.uk/.
You can read smut and listen to #AudioPorn on my very #nsfw #SexBlog at https://onqueerstreet.com/.
| Pronouns | He/him |
| Latest article | https://www.gaytimes.com/life/love-sex/what-is-t4t-trans-for-trans-dating/ |
Not long left to join the Patreon if you want to receive a Christmas card: https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/2025-christmas-cards/
If you do it before this weekend you can also join the live hangout on Sunday evening: https://www.patreon.com/posts/come-hang-out-me-143418465
https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/2025-christmas-cards/
While my "biological sex" – such as it is – might be more relevant in a medical setting, it can still be demeaning. The doctor whose hands were on my chest likely did not understand that my body is already male. She probably saw me as female, even if she also understood that I am a man.
https://www.genderbent.co.uk/and-then-the-doctor-drew-my-boobs/
I wrote about my first appointment with the surgical team at the hospital who will eventually do my top surgery, and how I left that appointment feeling disgusted not just with my body but with myself: https://www.genderbent.co.uk/and-then-the-doctor-drew-my-boobs/
It’s Trans Awareness Week *and* International Men's Day, so it's the perfect time to subscribe to my newsletter where I (a trans man) write about gender and masculinity.
A piece from a severely disabled guy from earlier this year that absolutely deserves more promo on #InternationalMensDay: can #SexTech help to defeat feelings of inadequacy? Can it enhance connection?
https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/sex-tech-inadequacy/
https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/sex-tech-inadequacy/
It’s Trans Awareness Week *and* International Men's Day, so it's the perfect time to subscribe to my newsletter where I (a trans man) write about gender and masculinity.
*jingles bells*
2025 cards are here! Check out the outrageously cute & playful design by @stuart_cb - and join Patreon before 1st December if you'd like me to send you one!
Mostly unrelated, but how on earth is the word MENSTRUAL triggering safe search?!
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