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Quinn Rhodes (he/him)3d ago

Can cis people please have the decency to do the tiniest modicum of research before writing about trans people?

Quinn Rhodes (he/him)3d ago

Neil Brown 4d ago

# Loving masculinity when men are in crisis

This is a fascinating piece, by @onqueerstreet, on a topic I had not considered before.

https://www.genderbent.co.uk/loving-masculinity-when-men-are-in-crisis/

Loving masculinity when men are in crisis

My masculinity is not defined in relation to other people's oppression.

Genderbent

Quinn Rhodes (he/him)4d ago

Nora Reed

4d ago

im sooooooo tense i need the ai bubble to burst

Quinn Rhodes (he/him)4d ago

Zumbador 4d ago

I received this newsletter this morning, **Loving masculinity when men are in crisis **by @onqueerstreet

I especially loved this thought:

"Fundamentally, not being a man doesn’t inherently prevent me from hurting people, and being a man doesn’t automatically mean I’m going to hurt people – though I am careful to be aware of how I now *benefit* from male privilege. "

Read the rest here:

https://www.genderbent.co.uk/loving-masculinity-when-men-are-in-crisis/?ref=genderbent-newsletter

#Trans #TransMen

Loving masculinity when men are in crisis

My masculinity is not defined in relation to other people's oppression.

Genderbent

Quinn Rhodes (he/him)5d ago

I have a confession to make: I get uncomfortable when people say they don’t understand why bi women choose to date men when they could just date women.

Let me explain, because I understand this is usually a joke. I also understand just how often men who date women fail to meet the very, very low bar of not being a total dick their partners. It’s not that I want to make a #NotAllMen argument; I’m uncomfortable because it brings up my own shame.

https://www.genderbent.co.uk/loving-masculinity-when-men-are-in-crisis/

#Trans #Masculinity

Loving masculinity when men are in crisis

My masculinity is not defined in relation to other people's oppression.

Genderbent

Quinn Rhodes (he/him)5d ago

Delighted to discover that @Mollysdailykiss's Circle Planner discount code STILL WORKS. 💛

Quinn Rhodes (he/him)Sep 1

I'm so angry and sad and anxious right now. Going to have an emergency solo dance party to try and release some of the physical stress in my body, and then maybe a cry and a nap.

Quinn Rhodes (he/him)Aug 27

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Girl on the Net Aug 27

This rule actually holds true for pretty much any platform adult creators exist on. If the money is not *in your bank account*, it could be taken at any time - especially if the platform changes its terms and conditions or has adult-unfriendly terms to begin with.

Never let money build up in your accounts if you can help it. I don't even let money sit in my Patreon for very long.

Quinn Rhodes (he/him)Aug 27

Girl on the Net Aug 27

This is appalling. Reminder to all adult creators to drain your PayPal account the *second* funds hit it. Never ever let money build up in your PayPal. It can be seized at any moment.

https://automaton-media.com/en/news/steam-adult-game-programmer-has-account-frozen-by-paypal-80000-in-earnings-withheld/

Steam adult game programmer has account frozen by PayPal, £80,000 in earnings withheld - AUTOMATON WEST

PayPal froze £80,000 of a Steam programmer's earnings because of their involvement in developing adult games.

AUTOMATON WEST

Quinn Rhodes (he/him)Aug 26

chromatographics Aug 26

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