sometimes theres cats, rats and plants
Pronoun | They/Him |
Fursona | Red Panda |
Etsy | Craftmancy |
Redbubble | Meatcrafted |
Pronoun | They/Him |
Fursona | Red Panda |
Etsy | Craftmancy |
Redbubble | Meatcrafted |
did 4 of these fucks today. and like, sure, there is a lot of copy and paste, largely the opening and closing. i am working on a few different scripts for the different surgeries cause we have to add in a little more on why someone would need a surgery. but i still gotta do their journey, if they do hrt, their support network, their work info (will they get fired for getting surgery kinda shit), and their recovery plans and that is all a new rewrite every time.
The really fucking stupid thing is half the assessment is not info that the insurance wants so I don't ask it. there is a lot on it that i won't ask, its so fucking outdated its offensive. the last person asked hwy i didnt ask about how they bind and i was like welp cause it wants me to ask when you started masturbating, it was not written by trans folks and even tho we are at a point were starting to get into these positions, these are the tools we are being handed to use. A newer one has been added to our drive but I haven't been able to find it.
🦾to trans people fleeing to new locations
Trafficking is a safety concern. Here are some ways to try to avoid it
1) have multiple contacts at your destination who are not working together. make friends there. Find discord servers and chat groups. Then there is somebody else there you can ask for help
2) always retain control of your identity documents, communication devices, funds and means of travelling when staying with somebody. Those are your lifelines in case the situation goes badly
3) never, ever let yourself become wholly reliant on one person or org for everything. If you cannot leave a situation without losing all your means of surviving, you are vulnerable to exploitation
4) talk about what you are experiencing with people you already trust so they can lend you perspective
at some point you will have to trust someone and take risks to make progress. there’s no hard, fast rule as to who is trustworthy. Safety is about *redundancy* #gtfomystate