Just to be clear: men should spend money on the women in their lives. women should not base their desirability on if/how much a man spends.

You want to see the system of patriarchy & calitalism in action, & I mean actually operating as a system, The Real Housewives franchise is the place to see it. Ngl I haven’t watched any of the predominately White ones but between Atlanta & Potomac, you’ll be good.

FD Signifier calls out the internalised patriarchy in women basing their desireability on if a man’s willing to spend money on them. & in this week’s RHOA Angela refutes comments about her husband not liking her by bragging about him dropping $25k for “another one of [her] projects” 👩🏾‍🍳🤌🏾

I have two macOS machines, what’s the best way to get remote access from one to the other if they’re *not* on the same network?

00:56. The grumpiest plumber to ever live is currently performing magic tricks in my kitchen (to the annoyance of my downstairs neighbours).

21:30. Kitchen is flooded. Plumbers are on a 4 hour callout but the wait is likely to be longer. For some reason I booked grocery delivery for btwn 8-11pm. I’m so tired 😭

Watched The Drama on Sunday & it’s an exquisite film that made me feel unlike anything I’ve ever felt from a film. All the characters (bar Emma) are infuriating. I’ve seen only a few critics talk about the racial dynamics in the film but this is what stood out to me most.

British leftists, what newspapers (that isn’t The Guardian) are you reading? Bonus points if they’re available in print.