I think perhaps the thing I got punished for the most as a kid could be boiled down to "not being calm".
My parents' Christian beliefs said that even *if* someone was being cruel or unfair, the responsibility of a Christian was basically to tolerate it without complaint.
So if I got upset & raised my voice & wouldn't become calm again, I was "sinning". It did not matter what happened to reach that situation.
:EA DATA. SF:
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