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@itsbeexox
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🔮 "As wild as I am romantic, as spiritual as I am kinky" ✨
👑 Conscious Hedonist
🖤Decolonialism🫱🏽‍🫲🏾Reindigenisation🫱🏾‍🫲🏽Resistance
💎 Tantrika

WURK:
➖ Somatic Intimacy Therapy & Coaching (in Sex, Love, Dating, & Relationships) #TraumaInformed
➖Magick🫱🏽‍🫲🏾Medicine #Witch
➖ Ceremony/Rites/Ritual Guide
➖ Performer
➖ Parent

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PoliticsPro-Choice. Progressive. Left. Libertarian.

ME: <a parent, checking in on the 6yr old, bec it’s my job or whatever, and I’m genuinely interested, plus safety reasons>

“How’s the bath going?”

SAGE: “Don’t interrupt me!”

SAGE <my 6yr old>: “Life, is a Game.”

ME: <getting home after being out for a cpla hrs today, because KMart & SupermarchĂŠ things>

“Wow, the World is a Lot.”

I needed to go out today, because KMart & SupermarchĂŠ things.

ME: <upon returning home>
Wow, the World is a Lot.

ME: Wow, the World is a Lot.

ME: <makes a joke>

MY 5YR OLD: Great Job.

ME: …

<concurrent inside thought>
I do not know how I feel about this
😂😌🧐🥹🤣

𝗕𝗘𝗘 𝗦𝗟𝗘𝗠𝗔𝗡𝗜𝗬𝗔𝗛 on Instagram: "The -Ways ppl have §ex -Acts we Define as §ex -ConditionsRequired for us to engage in §exualActivity are NOT CREATED EQUAL I’ll say that again: NOT CREATED EQUAL aka DifferentFolks, DifferentStrokes Figuratively+Literally 1️⃣ -TRAUMA -ĖROTÎC BLUEPRINTS -SPONTANEOUS vs RESPONSIVE DESIRE -SES vs SIS [§exualExcitationSystem vs §exualInhibitionSystem- aka TurnOns vs TurnOffs] -DEMI§EXUALITY -HUMAN DESIGN These are a few contributing factors of our §exLife+§exualChoices 2️⃣The roasting snowflakes culture is problematic, when we really are as unique as our fingerprints, in so many nuanced individual ways Most, after “SeeingMe” digitally (SocialMedia/DatingApps), are *SHOCKED* when I don’t meet the picture they’ve painted Eg. folks, esp Cis-Men REALLY Struggle to Understand/Believe/Respect that a WildUninhibited§lut such as YoursTruly has this GatekeeperPu§§y But hey -She’s Mysterious🔮 -ThisTemple is SacredHallowedGround🐚 -Also: Hello, Princess👑 Seriously tho, after healing my trauma+realising my primary EroticBlueprints= Energy+K¡nky I reforged my relationship with §ex And ToMySurprise, it turned out that (for me), §exualActs which involve receiving any type of penetration are: -an ExclusiveSpace -tied to diff parts of the Safety•Love•Belonging Spectrum There are SoMany ppl, of ALL genders, whose §exuality is shaped/operates similarly This not only affects their Pleasure+Presence, but can determine Wetness•Ėrėction•AbilityToÔrgasm I’ve seen this Personally+Professionally And SoMany HaveShame &/or are Shamed for it 3️⃣#DidYouKnow in Taoist Reflexology: TheHeadOfThe🍆 & TheCervix🌺 are known as TheGatewayToTheHeart? So if our ♥️s are Closed/Broken? 🍆🌺 are NumbPainfulTraumatized? It affects the state of the other 4️⃣The only GOD this is about is my Pu§§y She -is the Goddess of what Cums&Goes -says VIP Entry Only In our Desensitised•PornTainted•Swipe2Fûck world most don’t get this/ppl like me And SoMany Men have been, well…<Gestures@EverythingInThisReel> But this post isn’t for them. 5️⃣It’s to ShedLight on: -OxymoronicF🗣ckery -Uniqueness of §exuality ♥️s in our 🍆🌺 -§exualLiberation ≠ AllAboard -PresentIntentionalCasual§ex ≠ Not§exuallyLiberated"

𝗕𝗘𝗘 𝗦𝗟𝗘𝗠𝗔𝗡𝗜𝗬𝗔𝗛 shared a post on Instagram: "The -Ways ppl have §ex -Acts we Define as §ex -ConditionsRequired for us to engage in §exualActivity are NOT CREATED EQUAL I’ll say that again: NOT CREATED EQUAL aka DifferentFolks, DifferentStrokes Figuratively+Literally 1️⃣ -TRAUMA -ĖROTÎC BLUEPRINTS -SPONTANEOUS vs RESPONSIVE DESIRE -SES vs SIS [§exualExcitationSystem vs §exualInhibitionSystem- aka TurnOns vs TurnOffs] -DEMI§EXUALITY -HUMAN DESIGN These are a few contributing factors of our §exLife+§exualChoices 2️⃣The roasting snowflakes culture is problematic, when we really are as unique as our fingerprints, in so many nuanced individual ways Most, after “SeeingMe” digitally (SocialMedia/DatingApps), are *SHOCKED* when I don’t meet the picture they’ve painted Eg. folks, esp Cis-Men REALLY Struggle to Understand/Believe/Respect that a WildUninhibited§lut such as YoursTruly has this GatekeeperPu§§y But hey -She’s Mysterious🔮 -ThisTemple is SacredHallowedGround🐚 -Also: Hello, Princess👑 Seriously tho, after healing my trauma+realising my primary EroticBlueprints= Energy+K¡nky I reforged my relationship with §ex And ToMySurprise, it turned out that (for me), §exualActs which involve receiving any type of penetration are: -an ExclusiveSpace -tied to diff parts of the Safety•Love•Belonging Spectrum There are SoMany ppl, of ALL genders, whose §exuality is shaped/operates similarly This not only affects their Pleasure+Presence, but can determine Wetness•Ėrėction•AbilityToÔrgasm I’ve seen this Personally+Professionally And SoMany HaveShame &/or are Shamed for it 3️⃣#DidYouKnow in Taoist Reflexology: TheHeadOfThe🍆 & TheCervix🌺 are known as TheGatewayToTheHeart? So if our ♥️s are Closed/Broken? 🍆🌺 are NumbPainfulTraumatized? It affects the state of the other 4️⃣The only GOD this is about is my Pu§§y She -is the Goddess of what Cums&Goes -says VIP Entry Only In our Desensitised•PornTainted•Swipe2Fûck world most don’t get this/ppl like me And SoMany Men have been, well…<Gestures@EverythingInThisReel> But this post isn’t for them. 5️⃣It’s to ShedLight on: -OxymoronicF🗣ckery -Uniqueness of §exuality ♥️s in our 🍆🌺 -§exualLiberation ≠ AllAboard -PresentIntentionalCasual§ex ≠ Not§exuallyLiberated". Follow their account to see 251 posts.

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Which Pic(s)/Toot(s), sparked something for you, or hit you in some kinda way?

And having read them:
~ Do you feel more mobilised, righteous, free, empowered, relieved, supported in a direction (in general and/or about a space/context/person)?
~ Have you gained new perspective(s), awareness, illumination?
~ How…?

I’d love to hear what’s shown up for you 💪🏾✨⚖️

When we’re intentional about our placement, & others, as well as ours in relation to others & ViceVersa, in any given context or culture,
& we use, play, subvert, &/or fučk with that
it can be Healing,
Elating or Soothing,
it can be Transformative,
Nourishing or Relieving,
it can even be Hot.

More often than not though, many of us are not aware, let alone intentional.

We may feel powerless•frustrated•anxious•oblivious•people please•feel shame(d)•frozen•enraged•collapsed
& not even know why.