ME: <a parent, checking in on the 6yr old, bec itâs my job or whatever, and Iâm genuinely interested, plus safety reasons>
âHowâs the bath going?â
SAGE: âDonât interrupt me!â
đŽ "As wild as I am romantic, as spiritual as I am kinky" â¨
đ Conscious Hedonist
đ¤DecolonialismđŤąđ˝âđŤ˛đžReindigenisationđŤąđžâđŤ˛đ˝Resistance
đ Tantrika
WURK:
â Somatic Intimacy Therapy & Coaching (in Sex, Love, Dating, & Relationships) #TraumaInformed
âMagickđŤąđ˝âđŤ˛đžMedicine #Witch
â Ceremony/Rites/Ritual Guide
â Performer
â Parent
| IG | @itsbeexox |
| Substack | TBC |
| Kink/BDSM | Brat. Spoiled Princess. âMyâĽď¸BelongsToDaddyâ |
| Politics | Pro-Choice. Progressive. Left. Libertarian. |
ME: <a parent, checking in on the 6yr old, bec itâs my job or whatever, and Iâm genuinely interested, plus safety reasons>
âHowâs the bath going?â
SAGE: âDonât interrupt me!â
ME: <getting home after being out for a cpla hrs today, because KMart & SupermarchĂŠ things>
âWow, the World is a Lot.â
I needed to go out today, because KMart & SupermarchĂŠ things.
ME: <upon returning home>
Wow, the World is a Lot.
ME: <makes a joke>
MY 5YR OLD: Great Job.
ME: âŚ
<concurrent inside thought>
I do not know how I feel about this
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đđđ đŚđđđ đđĄđđŹđđ shared a post on Instagram: "The -Ways ppl have §ex -Acts we Define as §ex -ConditionsRequired for us to engage in §exualActivity are NOT CREATED EQUAL Iâll say that again: NOT CREATED EQUAL aka DifferentFolks, DifferentStrokes Figuratively+Literally 1ď¸âŁ -TRAUMA -ÄROTĂC BLUEPRINTS -SPONTANEOUS vs RESPONSIVE DESIRE -SES vs SIS [§exualExcitationSystem vs §exualInhibitionSystem- aka TurnOns vs TurnOffs] -DEMI§EXUALITY -HUMAN DESIGN These are a few contributing factors of our §exLife+§exualChoices 2ď¸âŁThe roasting snowflakes culture is problematic, when we really are as unique as our fingerprints, in so many nuanced individual ways Most, after âSeeingMeâ digitally (SocialMedia/DatingApps), are *SHOCKED* when I donât meet the picture theyâve painted Eg. folks, esp Cis-Men REALLY Struggle to Understand/Believe/Respect that a WildUninhibited§lut such as YoursTruly has this GatekeeperPu§§y But hey -Sheâs MysteriousđŽ -ThisTemple is SacredHallowedGroundđ -Also: Hello, Princessđ Seriously tho, after healing my trauma+realising my primary EroticBlueprints= Energy+KÂĄnky I reforged my relationship with §ex And ToMySurprise, it turned out that (for me), §exualActs which involve receiving any type of penetration are: -an ExclusiveSpace -tied to diff parts of the Safetyâ˘Loveâ˘Belonging Spectrum There are SoMany ppl, of ALL genders, whose §exuality is shaped/operates similarly This not only affects their Pleasure+Presence, but can determine Wetnessâ˘ÄrÄctionâ˘AbilityToĂrgasm Iâve seen this Personally+Professionally And SoMany HaveShame &/or are Shamed for it 3ď¸âŁ#DidYouKnow in Taoist Reflexology: TheHeadOfTheđ & TheCervixđş are known as TheGatewayToTheHeart? So if our âĽď¸s are Closed/Broken? đđş are NumbPainfulTraumatized? It affects the state of the other 4ď¸âŁThe only GOD this is about is my Pu§§y She -is the Goddess of what Cums&Goes -says VIP Entry Only In our Desensitisedâ˘PornTaintedâ˘Swipe2FĂťck world most donât get this/ppl like me And SoMany Men have been, wellâŚ<Gestures@EverythingInThisReel> But this post isnât for them. 5ď¸âŁItâs to ShedLight on: -OxymoronicFđŁckery -Uniqueness of §exuality âĽď¸s in our đđş -§exualLiberation â AllAboard -PresentIntentionalCasual§ex â Not§exuallyLiberated". Follow their account to see 251 posts.
Which Pic(s)/Toot(s), sparked something for you, or hit you in some kinda way?
And having read them:
~ Do you feel more mobilised, righteous, free, empowered, relieved, supported in a direction (in general and/or about a space/context/person)?
~ Have you gained new perspective(s), awareness, illumination?
~ How�
Iâd love to hear whatâs shown up for you đŞđžâ¨âď¸
When weâre intentional about our placement, & others, as well as ours in relation to others & ViceVersa, in any given context or culture,
& we use, play, subvert, &/or fuÄk with that
it can be Healing,
Elating or Soothing,
it can be Transformative,
Nourishing or Relieving,
it can even be Hot.
More often than not though, many of us are not aware, let alone intentional.
We may feel powerlessâ˘frustratedâ˘anxiousâ˘obliviousâ˘people pleaseâ˘feel shame(d)â˘frozenâ˘enragedâ˘collapsed
& not even know why.