| caution: | paranoid |
| caution: | paranoid |
I see that boosting talk abt Discourse lost me a follow
But as an escapee & survivor of several Bad Abusive Situations i have strong feelings abt how we need to listen to survivors. Its a race i got a few dogs in. Somethin i feel on a personal lvl.
So ... it matters to me that ppl understand. When u go “callout culture bad” survivors hear “stop talking abt what happened to you”
Not being listened to is a gigantic trigger.
Bc if you wont listen to me why should i even speak
If im not speaking or being heard why even exist
And then its all suicidal ideation again
Please, PLEASE, -show you listen- and -act like it-
ykno its hard to stay upbeat and keep a positive face when youre like
livetooting somethin totally mundane and then get smacked down by a lazy clerk who makes u sit around going 'is this gatekeeping or is it just a lazy clerk being lazy'
like i dont Try to be sullen and sardonic all the time but stuff likes to happen that knocks me into that mode p regular :T
One on hand, this whole story unnerves the shit out of me, and I'm not easy to unnerve with mere history. On the other, somebody cleverer than I could spin one hell of a dark fantasy screenplay out of these "hunger stones."