@cdvolbers

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Musician, composer, writer and social worker. I like extreme metal, swarm creatures, cute animals and LEGO, and many other things. I just want everyone to be happy.
Websitehttps://cdvolbers.com/
Bandcamphttps://xenogramm.bandcamp.com

Dragon Dads (https://dragondads.org/) is a group of dads and other caregivers who are affirming and supportive of LGTBQIA+ kids. One of their big activities is going to #pride events and giving out free dad hugs. Many of them have been doing this for 10 years or more. This was my first time.

Let me tell you, I saw, and felt, absolutely everything.

There was someone who squealed when they saw the booth and did a ten yard sprint to catch me in a flying hug. There were people who walked by several times before they timidly came up and asked for a hug.

There were people who wanted long hugs, side hugs, pats on the back, fist bumps. (We have a menu.) People who don't like hugs, but were nonetheless thrilled that we were doing it.

People told me that their dads had passed away, refused to have anything to do with them, or that they had had to cut their own dads off. One told me "I miss my dad", and when I said I was so sorry, they said "he's in Arizona".

There was an elderly person in a wheelchair who told us how their alcoholic father used to beat them, then told us all the things they had accomplished in life in spite of him, just to show him.

There were people who trembled. People who sobbed. People who melted.

A giant dude in one of those neoprene dog masks (with my permission) grabbed me in a great big hug and lifted me off the ground.

I leaned down to hug people in wheelchairs, and stretched up to hug a woman who I swear was seven feet tall.

Some people stayed to chat, or to cool off in our misting fan in the blistering heat. Others got a hug and left quickly, tears in their eyes and a "thank you" on their lips.

Absolutely everyone who wanted a hug got one.

I've signed up for more events.

Just seven more days until we fly to the Lofoten, Norway. I've never been more in need of a vacation than I am right now. Work, solo album, a soundtrack commission, group therapy, self-improvement... it's been a lot juggling all of that and I'm looking forward to ten days of nothing but driving around in a cute EV, hiking up some trails, and seeing cool things.

Ich spiele heute ein Privatkonzert bei einer Gartenfeier.

Wenn ihr mich für sowas buchen wollt - in und um Leipzig und in Einzelfällen auch weiter weg - schreibt mir doch gern. :)

Ich kann die Setlist je nach Wunsch lustiger, fröhlicher, melancholischer, düsterer (oder mittlerweile sogar auch wütender) gestalten. 😅 Oder eine bunte Mischung. :)

Dann sitz ich vllt bald auch in eurem Gewächshaus und bastel an der Setlist (Bild von 2021)

Liebe Grüße an euch und ein schönes Wochenende!

Masha

Student: “So Elon Musk is a trillionaire?”
Me: “Yup.”
Student: “How did he get that much money?”
Me: “Well, he doesn’t really have a trillion dollars cash. He just owns a lot of stock in companies that are valued at a trillion dollars.”
Student: “So those companies make huge profits?”
Me: “Oh gosh no. They all lose billions of dollars a year. All of them. Huge losses.”

The Economist headline: “Gen Z Mysteriously Hates Capitalism and No One Can Figure Out Why.”

I think I underestimated the strain yesterday's session put on my voice... might have to push the recording session to the next day I'm alone at home.

#musicproduction #homerecording

I did some harsh vocals today, it was fun. I now have the vocals for four out of nine songs, can't wait to put them into the mix. Tomorrow I'll do song 5.

Slowly bringing my albums and EPs back to streaming... I hate to crawl back to these services BUT as a wannabe musician at the beginning of his semi-professional career, I can't afford to NOT be on them. 😩

Anyway, support via Bandcamp is appreciated. But don't feel pressured, I just wanted to vent a little because some automated tool thinks I sampled a Pearl Jam Song on one of my records 🥲

Die Zeit in der Kanzlei neigt sich dem Ende zu und ich sehe mich nach einer neuen Stelle um (Chef ist deutlich älter als ich und verkleinert sich schon mal im Hinblick auf Ruhestand. Ich wusste es, aber Lust hab ich keine drauf).

Wie verpacke ich meine Hobbys Kochen, Backen, Handarbeiten, Balkongärtnern, Lesen und mit der Familie rumgammeln denn in eine Bewerbung, ohne dass es langweilig wirkt?

P.S.: Insolvenzsachbearbeiterin sucht neue Stelle in der Vorderpfalz/Rhein-Neckar-Raum. M.A. Kulturanthropologie und >25 Jahre Erfahrung in Sachbearbeitung aller Art, von Bank bis Technik. Hab noch min. 15 Jahre zu bieten.
#jobsuche #teamresopal #fedijob #insolvenzsachbearbeitung #jobangebot #FediHire

https://devintownsend.bandcamp.com/album/the-moth-deluxe-edition-24-bit-hd-audio

I think this is a strong contender for album of the year.

The Moth (Deluxe Edition) [24-bit HD audio], by Devin Townsend

48 track album

Devin Townsend
I've been asked to give everyone an update on a very close friend of mine, @artic

Earlier this week, she was in a really bad accident and hospitalized. She could barely move her arms and legs as a result, and had surgery yesterday to help restore function to them. I've been told that she will probably need a nurse for the rest of her life now.

This happened right before she was about to start a new job, too, and finally have an income a year after she escaped her abusive parents. She was the most hopeful I've ever seen her, and then this happened. I want to help restore this hope, even if her life is going to be different going forward.

If you have some money to spare, please consider sending at least a little bit her way. It will all go towards supporting her during her recovery and covering the cost of her surgery. You can donate to her here:
https://www.paypal.me/articwoem
https://ko-fi.com/artic38176

Please boost this post to spread the word, I know there's a lot of folks who know her who probably haven't heard about her situation. And if you have any words of support or encouragement for her, you can contact me and I'll either send them to her, or give you her temporary contact.

We're all wishing our best kitty a very speedy and comfortable recovery <3