Crosswhispering (inactive)

@antifahnen
114 Followers
87 Following
578 Posts
21y | non-binary | Linux-User | left-radical queerfeminist | mental health issues | toots english and german
BDSM / NSFW / 18+
pronouns (englisch)they / it / she
pronomen (deutsch)es / sie
active accounthttps://vulpine.club/web/accounts/50598

Google has recently started automatically importing information from Google+ profiles into the contacts app on android (Google Contacts) based searching for accounts tied to that phone number. This information is comprehensive and can't be deleted by the user.

If you have an old Google+ profile laying around from pre-transition, then any old emails etc. containing your dead name might have been imported into the contacts of everyone who has your phone number for any reason

Hi you people I moved to vulpine-club and it's great. I love the licks and awoos  
@little
@Are0h
I know now after writing all these messages that it came off in a way I was not expecting. I already learned a lot and I want to thank you that you took your time to respond to me. I value that.
I'm gonna take my time to process all of this.
Wish you a nice day/night.

@Are0h
I do not in any way claim or say that you did that on purpose. Like you said, you expressed a thought poorly. That can happen.

You cannot know about the history of a term and use in a different context. I think that even so it can do harm. I think I'm allowed to call that out. Yes, I did make mistakes in the way I called you out.

@Are0h
It's hard for me to know what you mean with saying I'm just clearly a straight prick about it.
That's not the same as not knowing at all how to be nice to strangers.

"Stalking" has a strong history of violence, especially against women. With using it for "casually checking social media" this meaning gets weakened because of the totally different context. That's why I did and still do claim that this use invalidates the meaning and history of that word.
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@Are0h
It might seem easy for you but it certainly isn't easy for me.
I try to understand why it came off as rude (which of course is nobodies responsibility but my own). The most demanding part of what I wrote was "Stop invalidating this term" from what I can notice. Other than that I tried to explain my point and reasoning in a very direct manner - "please, don't do this"
@Are0h
1. Of course. My feelings are mine to own.
2. Clearly, it's not something specific to me. I felt it's important to just bring it up.
3. That's okay. What I'm personally not okay with is when someone attacks me and then denies it. I had the feeling you did that and that I was getting mocked for recognizing a part of what you wrote as an attack.
I finally moved! Find me here: @little
@knittingsquirrel okay, so I carefully went over the settings and bothered to go down all the way. Never noticed there was something. (it's at the very end of "edit profile" under "settings"). thanks! 
@knittingsquirrel uh! do you know where it is hidden (on the web interface)?