@ZealProphet27

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Writer. Gamer. Chandler. Coffee Addict. Dreamer. Dungeon Master. Spreading seeds of positivity, encouragement, support. Owner of Coffee & Fumes Candles (coffeefumes.com) she/her

I am sorry that I haven't been as active here as I should be. I see I've lost about 20 of you...

I've been away from social dealing with family health stuff. Knowing how much social can impact my mental health, I stepped away to keep at my best for when the inevitable comes.

It's only a matter of time now. It's been hard & I promise to return to regular posting soon. Thanks for sticking with me. <3

You never know what someone else is going through. Be kind, always. It's free & could change the world - even if it's just one person's world. Imagine the good we could create if we spent more time spreading kindness/love over hate/judgments.

I'm proud of you. Glad you're here.

Just because you didn't crit doesn't mean it wasn't a good roll.

The same goes for you. Just because you weren't at your best today doesn't mean you aren't worthy.

I see you. I hear you. I'm proud of you.

Now, roll your damage. 🙏💚💜🕯

Feeling safe is the most important thing in life - no matter what it is - be it in social discords/communities, family, friends, etc - if you do not feel safe, it's okay to leave & find the place where you do. Don't stay to keep the peace or because others tell you to.🙏💜💚
The same is true about people.
If someone was there during the humbled beginnings but is no longer there for you, it's time to let them go, despite their promises to do better - especially if you know they won't. There is no shame in realizing you've outgrown them.
Proud of you💜

It's okay if you don't live your life the same way others do.
It's okay if you don't fit in.
It's okay if you don't follow someone else's lead.
It's okay if you do what makes you happy.
It's okay to set boundaries.
It's okay to not be okay.

You're okay. No matter what.

Fair warning:

If you hang out with me for too long, I'll brainwash you into believing in yourself & knowing you can achieve anything.

I'm proud of you for making it this far, for continuing when you want to give up, & for stopping/working to stop the cycle. Keep going.

Roll Perception.

Roll Animal Handling.

Make a Dexterity Saving Throw.

Roll Initiative.

Art: Dmitry Burmak, found on Pinterest

There is no shame in taking time for yourself - no matter the form it takes. You do not need to run yourself ragged for others - no matter who they are. It's okay to take a break, to rest, to just sit & enjoy the silence.

Put yourself first once in a while. All else can wait.🕯️

In case you didn't know, I make candles. My Holiday Special candle collection (11 custom scents) is leaving the shop on Feb 1st & won't return until Oct.

If you're interested in snagging some before they're gone, head over to coffeefumes.com. =)

#candle #candlemaking #marbledcandles #holidaycandles #handmade #homemade #smallbusiness