Audhd, forelder, skeiv, uføre, trans enby, de/han
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Slightly nsfw av og til sannsynligvis. Rants. Skriver mye om hvor fantastisk kjæresten min er.
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I'll probably mostly use Norwegian here, but sometimes I'll write in English
Audhd, parent, queer, disabled, trans enby. They/he
Sometimes I see the "your unemployed friend on a random weekday" memes and think: "Wow, I really can't relate to this".
The premise is that unemployed people go on wild, unexpected adventures.
Then I remember that I'm *not* unemployed, I'm too disabled to do paid labour. On random weekdays, I mostly just rest as much as possible to avoid deep autistic burnout in between my duties. It's not the same.
Sort of validating, actually.
Ungen vår, 5 år, har aldri vært på närcon enda, og blander det med pride. "Når vi skal på pride vil jeg kle meg ut som (insert kostyme)!" 😆
Kjæresten min og jeg bare "eh, it's not that different" 🌈
Tar meg selv i å savne gode, gamle blogg-hjemmesider av typen "jeg deler på lidenskapelig vis informasjon og kunnskap om et felt jeg kan mye om/prosjekter jeg har". Trist at alle "how to"- sider har tusen reklamer, delt inn i flere sider for å generere mest mulig profitt.
På den lyse siden, har jeg kommet over flere slike sider etter at jeg sluttet å bruke google som søkemotor. Herlig forfriskende å lese om en eller annen persons kjøkkenhagetips fra ti år siden.
Hver gang jeg er hos mamma, tar jeg meg selv i å tenke:
"Wow, dette tv-programmet er faktisk uutholdelig dårlig."
Kjendiser jeg ikke bryr meg om som gjør uinteressante ting for å fremme en eller annen teit sponsa greie, i beste sendetid. Fulgt minst 20 min reklame i løpet av en time.
Bånn i bøtta.
#Norsktut
I have so much muscle pain from wearing a binder in public. Not to mention the insomnia, dysphoria and anxiety.
Hopefully it's just a question of time before I get "masc enough" on t, but it hurts.
Often, I'll feel good about how I look until I have to leave my house and strangers misgender me one way or another. Again , I genuinely feel like they're not even trying to understand me.
#transmasc #nonbinary #testosterone #hrt
Yeah, I get upset about being misgendered every time I enter the public.
Trans people are played as a joke for that. But why am I the only unreasonable part in that situation? I'm trying desperately to communicate a masculine identity, and they're not even trying to understand me. Society is unreasonable for upholding the binary at every given chance, and never considering that not everyone is like them.
It's like constantly wearing sandpaper.
#trans #queer #misgendered #transmasc
Matthew | The Autistic Coach