Step 5 is profit, but unfortunately at this point you are already dead.

@codinghorror Oh wow, this one is really intimate... (and I like this real modern manliness way).

I listened to the 1989 Pixes album Hey a ridiculous number of times. It helped me survive that first year or two of college, because I had no idea what I was doing, and I had no idea what "normal" relationships looked like. Not until Dr. Betsy found me and the very first words she said to me were "you're doing it wrong". Because I was. And I still am, but only through the generosity and love of people willing to tell me that. https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/kurt-cobain-the-rolling-stone-interview-success-doesnt-suck-97194/