@LapisPebble@transfem.social
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Cis-male / 20s

Just here to try things. Might be a little more silly here.

I watch anime, read manga, and get really giddy about libre culture and computing.

I always end up sounding serious in posts but I guess I am a serious person
💤

If you follow, don't always expect a follow back. I might post very boring stuff at times, you have been warned.


Sharkey account for
https://twoot.site/@LapisPebble

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Profile picture from LN illustration in Isekai wa Sumātofon to Tomo ni

Banner image is
Frutiger Aero
PronounsHe/Him/They
Fedi-style CWs would be a much more empowering and less ageist system for tagging media than the currently existing age ratings.

Imagine a movie that said: "blood, violence, murder, jumpscare" instead of just: "18+"

💭 fedi content warnings but they're written in the register of UK television continuity announcer content warnings

‘CW: strong language throughout and scenes of a sexual nature’

and yet
"what do you do for work"
"i'm a professional"
"what"

Every day me and my girlfriend exchange around 20 "i love you"s.

Some might think: "duh of course she loves you and you love her why do you need to keep telling each other that"

And the reason is: It's comforting.

I think we both have some trust and abandonment issues. And saying something as simple as "I love you" helps us feel safe, comforted and loved.
For us It's not as simple as "yeah she loves me because she does this and that".
Picking up social cues is not something I am good at.

So, sometimes, all I need is her to say "I love you" for my silly brain to understand, that she loves me. 💕

Don't. Don't say you are "going to Google" or "Google that". Say "search online", "search the web" or "Use a search engine".

We shouldn't normalise using corporate language in everyday language, giving free advertising for them and spreading normalcy about using Google.

This is a bad thing. Might be awkward at first but it's the right to do and easy enough at no cost to you. Thanks.

Cisgender 101!

This one has been going around for a long time from what I understand, but it's still super relevant. 😁

[ brings a cutie home ]
[ shuts the blinds ]
[ sits on bed and looks at the cutie with a smile ]

“so let me show you my transit collectio-