Lisa J. Warner / Lisa Luv🤓😎🤔🧐🥸💁🏿♀️*Psychology says people who insist on doing everything themselves aren't controlling — they learned early that the cost of depending on someone👉
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Psychology says people who insist on doing everything themselves aren't controlling — they learned early that the cost of depending on someone and being disappointed was higher than the cost of exhaustion, and they've been running that math ever since – VegOut
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Psychology says people who insist on doing everything themselves aren't controlling — they learned early that the cost of depending on someone and being disappointed was higher than the cost of exhaustion, and they've been running that math ever since
The person who insists on doing everything alone isn't flexing — they're running a cost-benefit equation they learned before they had the language for it, and exhaustion always wins because it's predictable.