The #asexual spectrum (#aspec) is very diverse, and that’s great! Everyone in it experiences it differently. Some ppl (like me) do not want sex EVER. Some may tolerate or even like it, but just rarely so.
But there is ONE thing that EVERYONE in the asexual spectrum has in common: We all "violate" some arbitrary sex norm in one way or another, simply by being ourselves. No matter if asexual, graysexual, demisexual, fraysexual, …
It’s the NORMS that are false, not aspec people!