Ms. Que Banh

#PersonalIntegrity guarantee -> if we've been mutuals for awhile - if I'm ever hurt/angry/upset/disappointed in you - you're going to get DMs from me, letting you know how I feel & why. I am a very direct person. I communicate directly with a mutual first. I don't do give hints/passive aggressive style. I will be direct. Most folks now know, that's how I'll communicate, if I'm longtime mutuals.

I have no issues being direct with folks. I think most folks aren't used to direct communications because they rarely get to experience that in their daily lives. Too many people are scared of directly honest #communication. That's sad.

#ActuallyAutistic #FuckAmbiguity #AuthenticityMatters

Mar 28 at 4:11amWeb
Show threadMs. Que BanhMar 28

I'm the exact same if I like you as a fellow human. I am very direct with how I feel with others. I appreciate when others are equally direct with me. Saves everyone a lot of time! I'm over 50 years old now. I don't like people wasting my irreplaceable time.

#ActuallyAutistic #AuthenticityMatters

Show threadRaul PortalesMar 28
@PhoenixSerenity my approach has always been: if you want to say something, say it. Don't make me guess what you mean between the lines.
Ambiguity is the enemy of efficiency.
Show threadDonCCMar 28
@PhoenixSerenity
I dig it. people tell me east coast (USA) folks are more direct. I'm from the NY metropolitan area. Moved to Cali in 2001. Been here since. The way people avoid direct comments is kinda lame to me, but I try to not be to snobbish.
Show threadMs. Que BanhMar 28
@DonChacale I'm never snobbish about it; get what you mean though because I've met some arrogant fuckers before.
I like to try & give others the same genuine, honest energy that I'd appreciate receiving if I ever hurt/fucked over/harmed anyone & didn't mean to. I try to give the same berths to others because personal integrity is very important for me. If they piss upon the berths I've given them - I'll confront them, directly.
Show threadDonCCMar 28
@PhoenixSerenity
i was only talking about myself being wary /careful that i dont come off as condescending... ;-)
Show threadMs. Que BanhMar 28
@DonChacale It's a good reminder for everyone though.
Show threadsport of sacred spherical cowsMar 28

@PhoenixSerenity

Now here is parasocial me envious of anyone who garners such DMs, even if it is because they fucked up and are being given a chance to reconcile.

Not that myself am under any illusions that being one's mutual is the same thing as being friends. Will just take the win of not having fucked up enough, thus far, to merit a direct interaction.