women admit it you like men who prepare you for sex
who are boiling with desire
that's what you want to see to get ready
but have you ever thought of the energy that goes into that?
it's like a farmer who tills his patch of land to put seeds in there
(sorry but it's pretty accurate)
the question is
do you as a woman want to be a patch of land that has to be prepared?
or are you ready to face the facts that to go on with the old ways of cis sexual arousal come with certain trade off in the way the man is able to look at you?
honestly if you want it to be reasonable than don't expect high levels of affectionate pre investments and find other ways to figure the guy out and then make it rational and consensual.
yes is yes
no hidden agendas
no open balances
Mbingu