Disclosing you're autistic isn't just sharing information. You're engaging with a completely different whole person and their whole world.

They've got their own relationship with the word 'autism.' Their own history. Their own idea of who they thought you were — and you may be quietly rewriting that. 1/2

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Their reaction often has very little to do with you, and a lot to do with everything they brought into that moment. That doesn't make it hurt less. But it can make it make more sense.