fenchelmitheard "be the elephant you want to see in the room" earlier and gosh if that hasn't stuck with me
Heliograph@fen ... invisibly tho i guess😅
Fish Id Wardrobe ⁂@Heliograph @fen surely the whole point of the elephant in the room is that it's not invisible. everyone can see it: the point of the phrase is that no–one is _talking_ about it.
