What I believe #findom is, for sub's reference when they approach:
At its core a #BDSM power exchange dynamic that uses money as a tangible physical representation of the power being exchanged.
Remember the adages "#money = #time" & "money = #power" ??
That rings true here too.
When a #submissive sends, they are sending a portion of their power & a piece of their time. A #sub who makes $25 an hour & sends me $75 is giving me 3 hours of time in a very literal sense.
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He is handing me a gift "here is some of my power & time to grow your power & time."
IMO that is genuinely the most submissive thing a man can do, because there is a $100 trillion dollar wealth gap between men & women globally. A man who is not afraid to help me close that gap is not afraid for ALL men to lose power. #Feminine #superiority is long overdue.
I might get shit for this but IDGAF, we are essentially sexy Robin Hoods.
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Taking from men and redistributing to ourselves & towards others in ways that we see fit. It you tuned into the news you learned that SW'ers are the middle man between rich & poor.
They're responsible for directing billions of dollars per year into local economies.
Findom is no different.
We are an intersection of those who have & who have not.
We take from them & redistribute as we see fit: spending on local businesses, gifts to loved ones & peers, donations to charity, volunteering,
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furthering education, starting businesses, investing in the arts.
I have done & seen #Dommes do absolutely amazing things when they find their time & power has multiplied into a new income bracket.
Findom is not "being mean for the sake of being mean," that's not even #domination.
That's children who don't know better, don't send them fucking money & encourage that behavior.
Subs need to stop acting like they owe every Domme a send because that's not findom either.
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🌜Lady Marzanna🌛 God of Dough