If you are still on facebook because your friends/family are still on facebook, do you preface every message with: "== I DO NOT WANT TO BE ON FACEBOOK =="

And if not, why not?

Be the grit in the system 😉

@doctormo

I have the same problem with Watsapp, any recommendation? 🙏

@doctormo Did this long time ago, and people just call me weird --"

@doctormo a friend told me recently that my page on Facebook says I don't use Facebook and how to reach me via other means. I haven't been on Facebook in years, and then only for #ppprs.

I forgot I did that. Any "friends" I have there don't care that much for me to ever reach out.

If I had to engage today I might consider posting responses publicly to mastodon and only leaving links on Facebook. Do they block outbound links?

@doctormo I also challenge the honesty that people stay on Facebook because their friends and family are there. Most interactions are the passive doomscroll of commercially generated dopamine content, aren't they?

I posit that's why a friend leaving won't make them budge.