Extraction is when regulation flows one-way
and calling it out causes an incident.
I wrote a post-mortem about that pattern.
Members-only.
https://systemic.engineering/extraction/
Regulation-as-a-Service: When Systems Become Extractive
Asymmetric regulation isn't a bug—it's a feature in Parent-child, Therapist-client, Teacher-student relationships. Extraction is when the SLA was never negotiated, the load-bearer doesn't know they're on-call 24/7, and stating a need triggers an incident.