i think i might have fixed haproxy closing the socket on my long-lived idle xmpp connections by setting timeout tunnel 1h
i'll check again in several hours to be sure
wish i knew more precisely why this fixes the issue. are clients and/or the server sending keepalive messages more often than 1h but less often than 10m? is the tcp keepalive stuff not being used? someday perhaps but more likely i'll leave it unexamined as long as it works



