Up until a few years ago, I was just like you - I hated #systemd because it wasn't SysV.
This all changed over ONE day, when I decided fighting against systemd by attempting to ignore it and do everything the way I knew how was not working. I read the effing manual. I quickly learned how it's supposed to be used.
I started writing and modifying units. I created my own targets for groups of services. I fell in love.
I'm not saying systemd will be right for you, but I am saying I was wrong about it.
