just came across this and did not know him but totally agree with #Kamal about love and being loved, about listening and caring, about staying humble and treating yourself and others with kindness   https://youtu.be/lSnG3lkw0Ak?si=puM1-LqTrQmoSTD0
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Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

by Max #Ehrmann ©1927

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@Heliograph
That's beautiful, thank-you.
@Heliograph
I struggle with the anger. Its the only thing in the past that has kept me alive. If I am myself, then I direct it at those I feel deserve it and I do not hold back, making me loud, coldly aggressive and unapologetic. But I also recognise this as a fault, and one I must work on.
@MostlyTato
"Be gentle to yourself. Strive to be happy." ♡
@Heliograph
Thank you. I am. I do. I remain angry. I try not to be. I imagine that to deal with this is what I need to learn.
@Heliograph Very complicated!
@dancingtreefrog maybe not... i'm not old enough yet to say...
@Heliograph
I think we're all old enough to say, just need to be ready for any answers we come up with to change.