my wife found this online somewhere recently, and I don't think I've agreed this hard with anything in a long time

have most of these, some of them regularly and some infrequently, still working on

* slow mornings
* calm and "boring" days
* time
* a quiet mind

Those first two are pretty much only Sunday, and only if I didn't procrastinate something critical on Friday and Saturday. The quiet mind comes when I'm out walking in nature, away from people and screens, for at least an hour. I really enjoy that about as much as anything on the list, but it's hard to cultivate.

@darkuncle
"Though the storm be all around me, the storm is not in me."
Develop the quiet mind to the state where you can live it anytime, anywhere.
No. I'm not there yet. But I'm closer than I was last year, and the year before. It's a growth of process.

@fifonetworks 100% this

Someone I respect greatly once said “Spiritual formation is the slowest of all human movements” and that is endlessly encouraging to me.

@darkuncle gosh slow mornings are SO good

Lectures just started again this week but tutorials didn't yet and I always fall into that time table trap

So I was there 3 hours too early for lecture

Breakfasted in the canteen with cosy coffee and reading and felt SO refreshed and focused for the lecture 

@isibell it's just the best when you can take the time for thoughts to meander, and not have the next calendar event looming in the back of your mind
@darkuncle There must be a code in there that spells out "maximize shareholder value"
@crenquis “I am always the majority shareholder in my own mental, emotional, and physical health”
@darkuncle thanks for sharing these! This is the kind of life list i aspire to!
Greetings from Vancouver 🇨🇦
@darkuncle There seems to be a glaring omisssion. I see no mention of chocolate.
@darkuncle I’d add ‘days with no pain’ but otherwise, this is perfection
@biddy_sue my wife added that same addendum!! (fibromyalgia)
@darkuncle The only thing I disagree with:
These shouldn’t be *luxuries*.
@darkuncle
I enjoy exactly TWO Of those 12 "luxuries of life". 😐
@MugsysRapSheet sometimes just reminding ourselves to think about what we're pursuing, and why, can help align us with those outcomes we really value
@darkuncle I'd add the possibility to learn things we like.

@darkuncle
I'm surprised not to see anything about work (not necessarily paid) that you enjoy and a sense of purpose in that.

Maybe it's not considered a luxury?

@markhughes there's definitely immense satisfaction that comes from pursuing purpose and the expression of who we are through things we do for ourselves and others (significant overlap with what we'd traditionally consider "work” but definitely not 100%)
@darkuncle 💯. We lose many of those luxuries if we have no people we love and people who love us back.
@darkuncle initially liked this but something doesn't quite sit right with health being a luxury when healthcare should be a global human right
@Norgg @darkuncle I think the luxury angle is more about how not all of us can have health even if we have all the support and resources in the world, and *all* of us are guaranteed to lose it over time unless we get taken out by a bus at eighteen.
@darkuncle an missing peace on there! (not being under (violent) threat from any side)...
@darkuncle Peace, Democracy, Justice, Freedom, Truth – without these, the luxurious life quickly comes to an end.
@darkuncle i have almost everything from this list exept Time and Good night sleep....lots of other problems comes out of these.