like, our mental health will probably never recover from this, and apparently that's a sacrifice that everyone else is willing to make for us to soothe theirs, at the expense of their physical health?

"ablublu you gotta live your life, you can't let other people's actions dictate your happiness" other people's actions cause them to be disease vectors for something that punches holes in your brain. we do a lot of work with our brain and prefer to not have coronaviruses punching holes in it.