If you're miserable, you can't know what happiness is by guessing necessarily.
You need to experience being less miserable for a bit, get used to that (which takes time to adjust to), and then consider which aspects are less uncomfortable.
Seek those aspects or whatever they give you in other areas of your life.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Rkau7I0mbA PERFECT. This. I need to get my vtuber stuff set up on linux.
If after trying out different things, you are ALLOWED to realise you are more comfortable in your assigned gender role, or how you reinterpret it.
You're allowed to be cis. You may just feel more secure in your self-image than people who never bothered to check.
"I can be wrong about any of these. I hope I am, actually.
It can be easier to figure out which parameters you resonate with (for, against, or multivalent) or feel nothing about. From what your internal responses are, you can refine your ideas until they feel truest to your bodymind's reactions. ๐ฝ
(Trauma-Informed Mindfulness is a thing! Please talk to Samaritans or your local Mental Health Crisis Team for support. Your local MH teams can advise about diagnosis, if you want.) "
I saw an opportunity and did a thing. ... Huh. Or maybe it's the "everything else" green triangle: centred but unspecified?
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ๆฒธใใใใฃใฆใฏใงใใใ means "It's going to boil, right?".
ๆฒธใใใใฃใฆใฏใงใใใโฆ "I'm going to boil it..."
ๆฒธใใใใฃใฆใฏใงใใใใmeans "Let's boil it."
Ah yes, the joys of a "high-context language". Like how British euphemisms cover every facet of life in any combination, with redundancies (contingencies, I meant).
I think... I think I'm slowly torturing my translation app.
ใใใใฏโฆ ่จณๆใใขใใชใใใ็็ถฟใงใใณใใใๅ ใใใพใใใงใใใใ
(atai (w)ha... yakubun APPURI (n)ga mawata dekibi (w)o shimerimasu desho u.)
omg. "็งใฏ่จณๆใขใใชใใ็็ถฟใงใใณใใๅ ใใใพใใ" came back as "I'm going to be dominated by the translation app." ๐
ok so the expression is mawata dekibi o shimeru, "ใพใใใใงใใณใใใใใใ ใ็็ถฟใใง้ฆใใใ็ตใใ, ็็ถฟใใง้ฆใใใ็ท ใใใ
expressions (phrases, clauses, etc.), Ichidan verb, idiomatic expression
โ to torment by slow degrees, to torture slowly, to drag things out, to reproach in a roundabout way, to strangle with floss silk".
ไธๆ้ๅใซๅใฏใ่ถใใใฃใใ็ฎ่ซใฟใพใใใใใใ๐ฉใ
ใใคใใธใซใณใใจใซใใฏใฏใใใฃใใใฃใใใขใฏใญใฟใพใใใใใใ
Intent: I meant to make tea an hour ago, ffs.
1ๆ้ๅใซๅใฏใ่ถใๆฒธใใใพใใใงใใ.
ไปใซๅใฏใ่ถใไปฅๅๆฒธใใใพใใใ
ใขใใชใฏใ็งใฏ1ๆ้ๅใซใ่ถใๆฒธใใใพใใใงใใใ ็งใฏไปใ่ถใๆฒธใใใฆใใพใใใใใฃใฆ่จใใใ
huh. That'll do it.
I think there's a huge overlap between authoritarian thinking, external locus of control, rigid gender roles, and allism / non-autism.
inB4 "omg, I'm cis and *I'm* not authoritarian!!"
no, but you prove yourself contrarian devil's advocate on impulse. Why?
Mx Verda