as someone who believes in a higher power it sucks that basically everyone else I share that space with is detestable. Do know that I'm not like that . Never have been and never will be. There's a reason I have an embargo on religion on my profile and it's not because I think its scum - its because it has nothing to do with how I or anyone else should be treating you and everything to do with how I should be treating myself. I don't want people to ever think I make judgements based on religious contexts and I don't want people to think that I apply the same set of requirements to them that I apply to myself. I'm so much worse to myself. No one deserves to be treated the way I treat myself.

I don't find wanting to not be alone to be evil.
I don't find being scared of letting go evil.
I don't find wanting safety evil.
It's when you use that fear to justify oppression that it becomes a problem.